Selena Gomez - Lose You to Love Me Lyrics

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"Lose You to Love Me" is a heartfelt song by American singer Selena Gomez, released in 2019 as the lead single from her album Rare. The ballad combines gentle piano and orchestral elements, creating an emotional backdrop for Gomez's raw, reflective lyrics. In the song, Gomez explores themes of self-discovery and healing, singing about the end of a painful relationship and finding inner strength by letting go. The lyrics convey both vulnerability and empowerment, capturing the bittersweet journey of losing someone to rediscover oneself. 

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You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest

And you let it burn

Sang off-key in my chorus

'Cause it wasn't yours

I saw the signs and I ignored it

Rose-colored glasses all distorted

Set fire to my purpose

And I let it burn

You got off on the hurtin'

When it wasn't yours, yeah


We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dancing was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah


To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me


I gave my all and they all know it

You tore me down and now it's showing

In two months you replaced us

Like it was easy

Made me think I deserved it

In the thick of healing, yeah


We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dancing was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah


To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me


You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest

And you let it burn

Sang off key in my chorus


To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah


And now the chapter is closed and done

To love love, yeah

To love love, yeah

To love, yeah

And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

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